Want to stay current with Arthur’s writing? Sign up to get an email every time a new column comes out. Between my university lectures and outside speeches about the science of happiness, I do a ...

You don't want to find yourself apologizing for the guilt-tripper doing something bad to you, Not letting something go: You know the line "Love means never having to say you're sorry" from the ...

This is a specific example of what turns out to be a broader truth: Doing something you’re bad at can make you better at what you’re good at, as well as potentially making you good at ...